My previous blog post, "My Opinion on Gay Marriage" sparked a lot of interesting discussion. Most people agreed with what I had to say except one of the points I wrote about. It was the point, "YES, I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO JUDGE". People said the following,
"I'm not sure how you are getting that it's okay to judge, because it's not. I have absolutely nothing against gays. If they want to be gay, then leave them alone. All Christians do anymore is force religion down people's throats and it makes us hate religion in general. That's about all this town is filled with though, hypocritical 'Christians'"
"What's funny is by the dictionary's terms, we all just made judgment about this post. We all judge, so if we want to stop judging, we really need to work on taking away any human activities."The next three comments sparked my new decision.
"I agree with all of your points except one. We do not have the right to judge. The Word of God does the judging. As far as judging gays, it is really irrelevant for they were judged long before this old world even came into existence by a merciful and loving God. This is His foreknowledge at work. I kinda agree with Paul's statement that he is the chiefest of sinners, so am I. Gays are humans just like you and me deserving of God's mercy and forgiveness!"
"I would like to kindly disagree with one of your points: 'I have a right to judge.' No,you don't. It is true that the Bible says not to judge. We as Christians are not allowed to condemn sinners for being sinners - that's God's job. What we ARE allowed to do is inform them of their sin and urge them to repent. The exception to this is when dealing with Christians who still continue to sin. 1 Timothy 5:20 (referring to members of the Church) 'As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in fear.'"
"I believe that we are confusing judging people with warning people in this situation. We Christians are only warning people of what God says about this sin. We are not judging them. They say it is judging because they know deep down that it is wrong. Eventually God turns them over to a reprobate mind, where they can't see right and wrong. This may sound harsh, but this is what God did in Romans. Not man, but God. God is loving, but he is also just. We are warning them not judging them.
So...........based on new information, I would now like to make a new decision and new point for my opinion on gay marriage.
YES, I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO WARN
Many people when dealing with marriage equality, especially if they are gay, like to say "Who are you to judge? You have no right to judge. The Bible says do not judge. Don't judge. Don't judge. Don't judge." You know what? You're right, I have no right to judge you. You may say "Praise to (whomever you may worship)!!!! He's finally seeing our side. He knows he can't judge. We win and have free reign to live how we want to." WRONG!! Just because I have no right to judge you, I still understand from God's Word that your sin is wrong. My job is to share with you the truth that I know. My job is to WARN you!
What I know is that you are living in sin as a gay person, and that if you do not repent and accept Christ, you will go to Hell. But God, in His all powerful knowledge understood that these things would occur, so he sent His only Son Jesus Christ to live to die upon a cross for even your worst sin, be it homosexuality or whatever! It is up to you if you choose to accept that, but I can not do God's job of condemning you as a person. I can only warn you of what God's job is, because judgment IS coming, and it will be from GOD!
The only time I have a right to judge at all is when it refers to people in the family of God. Paul said this in 1 Corinthians 5:11-13:
11 But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one. 12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? 13 God judges those outside. “Purge the evil person from among you.”I cannot judge those outside of the family of God, we just went over that, but I can judge those inside of the church which is the true context of Matthew 7. If I see one of my brothers and sisters in Christ living in sin, I have every right to judge them and tell them they are not living the way they should. I quoted scripture, so don't fight with me, fight with God!
I have been so thrilled to write these posts lately. I was so thrilled by all the conversation sparked, and was please they every conversation remained mature and civil. Please let me know your thoughts now. Was this new decision fair? Yes? No? Why? Please comment below.
Amen!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Kristie Brady's comment on your post on G+, which is that (rephrasing of course) you are focusing too much on the fact that these people are gay, you are warning gays, homosexuality is a sin, etc., etc.
ReplyDeleteWhen people focus on certain "bad" sins, whether it be homosexuality, or murder, adultery, or certain other "horrible" sins, we as Christians appear as hypocrites for not pointing out the "less serious" sins like lying, cheating, or other forms of dishonesty and other sins that are considered "normal" in today's society.
The point is, all sins are equal in God's eyes. Yet, Christians only point out these sins that people consider "worse" than other sins. We seem to ignore the majority of sins while pointing out those few that we consider worse than the others.
I'm glad that you updated your post though, with your "new decision based on new information" :P